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Reading Addicts, Unite + Review of “Graceling” by Kristin Cashore Comments Off

I have been consuming books by the boatload lately.

Three reasons.
1. I realized (again) that I learn from books – if I want to grow, be motivated, inspired, changed, challenged, etc. – I read on a topic. And I need to grow in a lot of, er, topics.

2. I miss fiction. I’d fallen out of the lovely habit of just savoring books, enjoying the pure pleasure of story. Too much academic reading, too much nonfiction (without the good stories alongside), too much literary fiction and too few rewards. I hate a snarky read. I hate bad writing. Where is the blessed book free of both?

Well – not always true, I’m sure – but I took Gretchen Rubin‘s commendation to heart and started reading YA fiction. Delicious. I probably won’t be satiated in YA alone – the appetite is enormous – but I do find YA to be a large, interesting room full of smart, deep, well-written books. Some duds, too, sure. But plenty of good ones to choose from.
Anyhow. Oh yes, and I do read fiction as a lovely way to procrastinate on doing the (nonfiction) things I’ve been reading about and learning to do…

3. Joe got me a Kindle for Christmas.

= fall in love all ovah again
= best gift ever
= so many benefits that even an old-school, paper-infatuated, Apple-resistant gal like me can’t deny the love, the absolute and utter thrill of being able to carry a room full of books with me wherever I go. Because, despite the rigors of getting three kids under four dressed, pottied, redressed, and loaded in the car on any sort of outing, the most stressful part of leaving is still the moment I stop in the library (aka bulk storage room full of books masquerading as home office), purse in hand, and ask myself, “Which book should I take?” Now: I take them all. Oh joy, joy, joy.

Joe came home with a stack of YA fiction I’d requested from the library. I started (after much deliberation between which to start with, which nearly resulted in an ugly treadmill incident) on Graceling by Kristin Cashore.

Her first novel. Lovely. (I’ve used that word too much in this post.) The prose is striking, original, ringing, vivid. I found myself wanting to copy lines down just to savor and share later, but didn’t because I was too interested in the story for a petty exercise like NOTE TAKING (which I happen to love, truly madly deeply).

Oh, the story. Right.

You don’t really need a plot summary. There’s a heroine, who is more than she seems and a hero with similar characteristics, and a villain as well… And the characters make you like them and the world draws you in, and my only complaint is that the final “downfall of the villain” scene is almost anti-climactic. It’s like Kristin (can I call you Kristin? Is that okay?) felt like she’d ventured into a sticky mess of conflict and she’d better RESOLVE, RESOLVE NOW before things got out of hand and there was no clear way to resolution. To which I’d say: Kristin, trust yourself a little more. You wrote the whole gorgeous story, created the whole world it contains, you’re not going to get lost at the end. Take your time.

Maybe it was getting close to her deadline.

At any rate, despite that single complaint, the book is a gem. Poetry-like prose, “I-like-you-will-you-be-my-friend” characters.
Read.
Enjoy.

5/5 stars.
Image by Ginnerobot.

Recommended Reading, Issue #2 2

So my original plan of having an issue every Friday is kind of… gone. Heh. Ah well. -Best-laid plans and all that. But here’s Issue #2, for what it’s worth. I do read a lot, more offline than on, and I love recommending books and blogs that I think others will enjoy…

[There's no Mr Linky. I'm simplifying things - such as my life  - so if you have reading to recommend,  or a similar post, or a book review on your own site, please leave  a link in the comments below! ]

#1: Reading about Writing

I don’t follow many writing sites, because it’s often just rehashed same-old advice. But Write to Done produces some gems. I find myself re-reading the posts to make sure I didn’t miss something good, like this:

“We have to write whether we are in the mood or not. If you write for your career, then writing must be a daily act of self- discipline, even when it’s lackluster and boring.” That’s from this post.

And this:

“When the writing day is over, make sure you’ve scribed something because one of the best schools of writing is writing.” That’s from this post by Daryl Sedore.

Good stuff. Worth reading if you’re a writer.

#2: A Book a Day. Or Just a Book. Or Two.

I read and reviewed Captivating by John & Stasi Eldredge this last week. I resisted it a long time, but when Thomas Nelson had the new revised edition up for review, I decided it was time. And it was. A great book with a good message that women need to hear.{End shameless plug for my own book review.}

I also read -Josephine Tey’s The Man in the Queue. I’ve never really been a mystery fan, either in book or movie form, but I figured maybe I just hadn’t tried the right one. I enjoyed Tey’s book but I can’t say I’m a convert. I’ve got one by Ngaio Marsh in my bag to take with me this weekend… we’ll see.

#3: Old Stuff from the Starred List

I’ve cut way down on the blogs I follow because there just isn’t time for them all, people. I feel a little guilty, being a blogger myself. Oh well. I can deal with guilt. I can’t deal with ten thousand blog feeds.

So once or twice a week I hop to my Google Reader and catch up. I skim. If it catches my interest, I read. If I really like it, I star. And then I share. Like so:

“Could it be enough to quietly sit and hold the baby and take care of the kids, or do I have a whole list of extras to do too?” From a post published several months ago, which I’ve read several times, which still makes me pause and think… Go read it all. [And kind of funny, I just realized that of my total 2 issues of Recommended Reading, this blogger has been in, yup, both! Hm. I must like her writing. Yup. I do. She might not know it though, because I'm what we here in the blogo-sphere call a lurker. Which I feel like I should feel bad about and I do, kind of, but not enough (apparently) to wait for my slow connection to load the page to leave the comment. And now I'm done talking.]

#4: Not Really Reading, Exactly…

I just had to add this. You can read about it, here, at the artist interview on The Artful Parent. But if nothing else, just go see this art by Tif McDonald. It’s beautiful and different and if anybody wants to buy me the dandelion one I’ll be forever grateful. I wish I had the money… Oh, I wish.

I’d never even heard of “encaustic” before, but I’m going to go scour Etsy for it now. Check you peeps later.

Oh, don’t forget:

What’s your recommended reading? C’mon, haven’t you read something good lately? Prove it. (Nyah nyah nyah. I dare you.)

Week In Review: Daffodils, Haircuts, Cousins 2

Hello, week in review.

We found the first open daffodils. We smelled them. We tried not to touch them.

Later we found lots more, so we picked a few and put them in a vase for Mommy. I love being Mommy.

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From the feed reader…

  • Abby at New Urban Habitat, Frugal isn’t cheap: “But frugality can be more fun than the mindless consuming many of us got in the habit of doing in the previous decade, because we end up spending money on what we really want.”
  • Rachel at Small Notebook, My Real-Life, Practical Daily Routine: “Instead of having a schedule that would be ignored day after day in real life, I follow a daily routine of touchstones — key elements to mark a successful day.
  • Philip Brewer at Wise Bread, What I’ve Been Trying to Say: “You can’t go back and change decisions that have already been made, but that doesn’t mean that the design for the rest of your life is immutable.  Start today to design the life that you want to be living.”

From the bookshelf…

  • Eleanor Roosevelt, You Learn By Living

Read my full review here.

Mini Review: Practical advice for personal growth and a successful life, from the era before self-improvement was the big market share it is now. Roosevelt is easy to read and understand but profound. Her advice is practical, with personal examples, and I found myself copying lots of quotes and wanting to paste them all over the walls in my bedroom.
Find it on Amazon.

  • Mindy Stearns Clark, The House That Cleans Itself

Mini Review: If you’re not a natural housekeeping/organizing goddess, you will love this book. The concept is that instead of fighting our naturally slobbish tendencies (or those of family members), we should identify them and create systems that work for us instead of against us. Brilliant! I love this! I always feel like housekeeping is a battle, and I’ve already used some of her ideas and seen some of the most irritating problems get much, much better. I’m going to be tackling more of my house this year and Clark’s book is my guide.
Find it on Amazon.

What’s your recommended reading this week?
Join in by linking up your post, or simply share in the comments below.

Heads Up! Recommended Reading coming to – 1

Edit: This was supposed to be posted last night, but I had some intense disagreements with my computer. My husband had to mediate, and we finally came to a happy, working agreement this morning… So:

Heads Up! Recommended Reading coming today!

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Here’s the deal: I love reading. I love reading great blogs and articles online, and I adore (as in, extreme twitterpation and heart palpitation) a great book.
On the other hand, I despise wasting my time on sub-par writing of any kind. I find, however, it’s sometimes hard to put your finger on that great article or post or book or magazine you’re wanting, when you’re ready for your next great read.

Thus Recommended Reading is born.

Every Friday I’ll be posting a list of what I’ve read lately that (I think) is worth reading: books, blogs, and otherwise which I can whole-heartedly recommend to you.

I’m hoping some of you smart women will join with me and either put up a post or leave a comment with your own recommended reading, because, see, this is all kind of self-serving. I get kind of, uh, tense (hyperventilating, spasms, hives, stuff like that), when I don’t know what I’m going to read next. So if I can get some great recommendations, I can keep myself from those ugly little episodes.
I will thank you.
My whole family will thank you.

Tune in tomorrow later today for the first issue of Recommended Reading! I’ll include a Mr Linky so you can link up if you’ve written a post. And here’s a bloggie icon you can use to link back if you’d like.

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Happy Reading! See you tomorrow.

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