Create a definite plan for carrying out your desire and begin at once, whether you are ready or not, to put this plan into action. Napoleon Hill
The quote above is the antidote to the plague of perfectionism that keeps so many of us in a place of continual dissatisfaction and failure to reach our goals. We are waiting until we are ready, until the moment is right, until everything is in place, until Situation A is resolved and Situation B is over and Situation C is no longer demanding our time.
Conditions are never just right. People who delay action until all factors are favourable do nothing. William Feather
Waiting, waiting, waiting. Waiting until we feel ready. Waiting for energy. Waiting for motivation. Waiting for certain conditions. We call it prudence, or thoughtfulness, or planning, or timing. The Bible calls it being a sluggard.
The sluggard will not plow by reason of the cold… Prov. 20:4
The sluggard always has a reason why now is not the right time. The sluggard never has enough energy to get himself moving. He doesn’t feel good. He is depressed. He has many ideas but no movement. He has grand intentions but never takes action. He cannot produce the force necessary to get him out of the rut he lives in and onto the road he envisions.
As the door turneth upon his hinges, so [doth] the slothful upon his bed. Prov. 26:14
We call it perfectionism; the Bible calls it being slothful and warns us of the consequences:
The soul of the sluggard desireth, and [hath] nothing… Prov. 13:4
We think of lazy people as those with no ambition, no dreams, no ideas, no plans. Not true.
Lazy, or
slothful, or
sluggish, simply means, respectively, to be disinclined to action, to be inactive, or to be habitually inactive and slow. One who is sluggish has no power to move himself.
Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice.
Wayne Dyer
The pull of perfectionism is the pull to stay still. Motivation lies in taking action: one step leads to another. Progress creates more progress. You must learn to take action even when you don’t feel like it. You create the energy you need by acting as if you have it before you feel it.
Faith follows facts, and feelings follow faith. Too often we get that process all in reverse. We wait for the feelings; then we start to believe; then we assume that, since we feel it, and believe it, it must be true after all. But what if you stop “feeling it”? Suddenly your faith is shaky because the foundation – those ever-changing feelings – is shaky. Feelings change. Faith crumbles. You are back at the beginning. It must not be true after all. “I guess I wasn’t supposed to start that business.” “I guess I’m not really a writer.” “I guess it just wasn’t meant to be.”
Get your facts first. Are you, or aren’t you? Do you want it, or don’t you? Is it worth it, or isn’t it? Can you do it, or not? Is it a real desire? Have you made it a real goal, whatever it is? Whether it is a career change, a lifestyle change, a health issue, a new habit to form or an old habit to break, a relationship to evaluate, or a personal goal to achieve, you must take the time to find out what is true. Weigh the pros and cons. Discuss the matter with wise people you trust. Read about the subject. Pray about it. Determine what the goal is and how you best to get there; determine that you should and will get there.
Build your faith next. Be firmly convinced in your mind that the object you mean to pursue is worth pursuing, then just as firmly reject any suggestions to the contrary. Do not allow negativism, other’s opinions, and temporary obstacles to create doubt of what you know to be true. Begin taking action. “Faith without works is dead” is not trite religious phraseology. Take one step and then another. Persist.
The feelings will follow. You may not feel like a successful writer; feelings are irrelevant. If, after thought and deliberation, you determined that you should and will be a successful writer; if you begin taking action consistently toward that goal; if you do not allow discouragement and daily life to sway you, soon you will begin to experience the feelings that you expect.
Success seems to be connected to action. Successful people keep moving. They make mistakes, but they don’t quit. – Conrad Hilton
Keep moving forward. Do not allow the pull of sluggishness to keep you down. The warnings are there if you do – you will not see your desire accomplished. The promises are there if you refuse to give in:
…The soul of the diligent shall be made prosperous. Prov. 13:4
Motivational quotations from
Goal Setting Guide.
Scripture quotations from
Blue Letter Bible.
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I’m so much more relaxed with him, far more than with Mara and even more than with Robbie as a newborn. I’m not sure what the difference is. Maybe letting go of some perfectionism. Maybe trusting myself as a mother more. It helps to look at Mara and Robbie and think, “Hmm, they’re happy. They’re healthy. They’re relatively well-behaved. We must be doing okay.”