Lie #2: He needs me to tell him what to do.
Control and Why We Want to Have It
There’s a truth we know about people from experience: they are stupid. They mess up. They let us down. They don’t get it. They lie, they disappoint, they break hearts, they say hurtful things, they put themselves first. We see ourselves as the victims (and sometimes we are). They’re stupid, and we have to deal with the consequences. They mess up, and we pick up the mess. They disappoint, and we get blindsided. They break our hearts. continue reading…